Who Gives the Orders Around Here Anyway?

So first off, let me start by saying, I'm so glad that now that I've found the right guy for me, I'm better able to give up some of my need to have control over everything in life .... that being said; I didn't realize marrying a military man was going to force me to give up this much control this soon!  Ok, sign sealed delivered, now that we're married and a military family we go where they tell us to go and we go when they tell us to go (not that any of this is new for Dennis); so tell us already!

We are supposed to be moving next Thursday, only problem is, we still don't have official orders, and without the orders we can't schedule the movers, and without scheduling the movers, we can't get our stuff down there, and without packing our stuff up we can't get the inside of the house painted and ready to rent; not to mention the most likely scenario will be that I'll have to come back up to deal with the move.  There's still a possibility that all will fall into place very last minute, but until then it's apparently one big waiting game; sort of akin to "If You Give a Mouse A Cookie."

So, one way or the other, I've already taken the leap and whatever happens, happens because now I'm married to a military man and that's just the way it goes.  But, please, someone just give us some orders already!